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15 Jul, 2008

Online hook-ups spell daggy and desperate, right? Wrong. A new site is set to change all that and more.

It was like any regular chat between mates. Late last year a group of six friends from Sydney, including Louise Jackson, a psychologist, got talking over dinner about the dating scene in Oz.

Between them they had loads of single friends; now, if only there was a way to introduce them.



Fast forward a few months and their brainchild Meet My Friend,
www.meetmyfriend.com.au, is being deemed the way of the future in online dating. Officially launched on Valentines Day, the dating and social networking website is the first of its kind in Australia. Unlike most dating sites, perceived as uncool avenues to romance, it’s based on the six degrees of separation philosophy.

In fact, website membership has grown from a genuine pool of the six founders’ friends, the majority of members in their 20s and 30s. The best bit? Members get to meet people through a trusted source – their friends.

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“You can either join as yourself and nominate a friend to write your profile,” explains co-founder Louise, 33. “Or you can write a profile about a single friend and send it to them for their approval. Either way, your friend writes your profile, which means you don’t need to uncomfortably ‘sell yourself’’.” 
There’s room for humour, too. “Recently a guy wrote on his mate’s profile,

‘Well, I think Stu’s a bit ugly, but girls seems to dig him’, while a girl responded to her own with ‘You forgot to mention the double Ds’. People add their own twists, which creates a more honest picture of the would-be dater.”

From there, you and your friends can access online prospects and either make contact directly or put them in your ‘favourites’ folder which means you’ve been checking them out – almost like making the first move. “Traditionally, internet dating is a solitary experience; having a friend help you through the process makes it fun and much more real.”

Sydneysider Emily Scobie, 25, has Meet My Friend to thank for her budding romance with Ben, 27. They met through a mutual friend on the site two months ago. “I’ve never been into internet dating but this seemed like a different approach; I didn’t want to write my own profile and self-profess my good points in search of a guy,” she explains.

“I was single for a year before signing up, but within two weeks I’d met Ben. I liked his profile – and pic! And we had similar interests; he works in marketing, I work in advertising. I know it’s early stages but things are going well and I’m really happy.”

So, next time you or a friend craves a relationship status boost, consider this innovative approach to dating. Love may just be a few mouse clicks away. 

 

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Comments (35)

  • I met my boyfriend on an internet site. Photos seen....we matched on so many things, emailed for a few days and now speak on the phone daily. I will be going over the USA to meet. Only thing I have been tossing around in my head is that I haven't told him about my lung transplant (which is really no big deal) I personally want to tell him face to face....any comments???? Help!
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  • i met my boyfriend on the net and its great. He's perfect for me and without the internet i would never have known he even existed!
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  • I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I found his profile and sussed his pic, and sent the dreaded message expecting no reply. But unbelieveably the cutest guy i had ever seen started to talk me and we met up in a cafe. We spent hours talking and ending up bouncing around the back seat of his manly hilux!!! Hehe.... His mother told him the internet was a good idea and he still hasn't told her how we actually met. He doesnt want her to be right!!!
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  • Sorry to put a dampner on things, ladies, but I tried internet dating some years ago, and found every time that the loveliest, funniest men on line were never quite what they made themselves out to be on their profiles. I had one who was 9 years older than he said, and considerably fatter now than the photos posted; another who looked like a god in the photo, and sounded like a hip socialite, turned out to be washed up and boring.. and the list goes on. Good luck to you all, but be ware!!
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  • i met my boyfriend on the net, he lives interstate and after 7 months of doing the 'getting to know you factor' we met up and he is everything and more than i could have ever had hoped for. Life is great.
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